From Michael Richards rant to John Edwards staffers' blogs, bigoted statements come in all forms from all places. It seems like folks are quick to rush into "counseling", but I'm cynical enough to think of that as pat answer to a complicated question.
The ugly stain of bigotry (racial, gender or religious) has been on this country and every other country that has ever existed. America has had a distinct advantage in that, we've had to deal with it head-on and we've got such a muliti-cultural society that it's difficult to insulate comments and attitudes in a homogenous place.
We all grew up in a place where we believed the people in our town were better than the people down the road. It's not until we get to know the people in the next town that we realize they're just like us. And those who spend their lives in the most single-minded cultures lack the wisdom of self-reflection and restraint.
I have a friend from Chicago who is a hard-left liberal. He's a good guy on almost all fronts, but he thinks Republicans are evil. Not misguided, not wrong about taxes or health care...evil. But he grew up where everyone was a Democrat and the folks from the next town, the Republicans, weren't as compassionate, as generous, as sincere or even as intelligent as the folks from his "town". He's quick to become insulting and has an exceedingly thin skin where politics are concerned. But, as I said, he's also a very good individual. He gives to the poor, cares about those who are needy and tries to be inclusive of all around him.
The point of all of that is, that maybe this "counseling" thing makes sense, despite my misgivings. It seems to me that my friend from Chicago is "bigoted" towards Southern Republicans because he's never been forced to confront the reality of that position. It's never been challenged. He's been able to mock others beliefs in an environment of complete acceptance of that attitude. But forced to examine and defend those beliefs, we've all had our extreme positions collapse for lack of a true foundation.
Thoughts?
sharp