On a sad note, a good friend, Mark Matthews took his own life. He was a wonderful, lost young man who came out of Orangeburg, South Carolina - leaving behind a life of drugs and bad choices - just after the death of his mother.
He showed up at my church in Fernandina Beach, Florida and we became close. But his past caught up with him. His girlfriend in South Carolina issued a warrant against him for not paying child support - which he denied knowledge of her pregnancy when he left Orangeburg. Here's where it got bad. The state of Florida acted on the warrant and arrested Mark, but South Carolina took a ridiculous month or more to extradite him. During that month, Mark was in jail with a network of drug dealers and thieves. When the state finally dealt with him, he had a new set of friends and no job. You can guess the rest of this story.
I had moved to Tennessee, but I went back to Fernandina Beach and visited Mark in jail. He was the same Mark I had always known. But the light was going out.
I saw him one more time and we exchanged email addresses. Friends told me he was struggling. I guess it was more than he could bear. He got in trouble with the law a few more times and lost his next job. Then he decided it wasn't worth it anymore and he killed himself.
If Mark had been white, he would have had a lawyer and would have NEVER spent a month in jail. Not even a night, I'm sure. If he'd been white, they surely would have dealt with his situation quicker. But Mark was the wrong color.
Obama's election does provide hope for the hopeless. And he will be in my prayers every day. Among the things that I strongly oppose and fear in his administration, there at least rises the hope of equality and fairness. And the difference between hope and hopeless is enormous.
It just came too late for Mark. May God take you in His arms and give you comfort for all the trouble you endured in life. You deserved better. As do many, many others.
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